The Importance of Surrounding Yourself With Positive People
Your vibe attracts your tribe. Have you ever heard that saying? In other words, the people you surround yourself with influence who you are and what you become.
Y’all, when I was growing up in the church, it was always poured into me: who you hang out with matters. It’s even in the Bible:
“The righteous choose their friends carefully, but the way of the wicked leads them astray.”
(Proverbs 12:26)
“Do not be misled: Bad company corrupts good character.”
(1 Corinthians 15:33)
I’m not saying you lose yourself entirely in your friend group, but rather, the company you keep can rub off on you in subtle ways. It’s a reminder to choose your squad wisely because, whether you realize it or not, they’re shaping you just as much as you’re shaping them.
If we put ourselves into a circle that is positive and uplifting – guess what – we’re going to feel that energy! It’s contagious. That’s why I’m very particular about who I spend my time with and where my energy goes.
Who Are Your Top Five?
Motivational speaker Jim Rohn once said we are the average of the five people we spend the most time with.
Picture it this way: imagine you’re spending time with five of your closest pals. Each of them brings something different to the table: maybe one’s super ambitious, another’s a total bookworm, someone else is laid-back, etc. Over time, you soak up a bit of their energy, their habits, their way of thinking. It’s like osmosis, but with personalities.
So, if you’re hanging out with go-getters and high achievers, chances are you’ll feel motivated to aim higher and push yourself.
On the flip side, if your crew’s more into Netflix marathons and procrastination, you might find yourself adopting similar behaviors. It can be so easy to fall in with the wrong crowd but that’s why we have that built-in gut instinct, right? Intuition is REAL, my friend.
I believe one of my spiritual gifts is encouraging others: I love hard on people and if I can help lift somebody else up, that is like magic to my body.
I have so many different friend groups in my life. There are the sports moms, the school moms and my coffee group. On the business side, I have an inner circle of agency owners and a local BNI Circle of Gold chapter. We keep each other accountable and encourage one another.
I position myself into networking groups, masterminds and inner circles that are diverse. I don’t want to be the best in the room. I don’t want to be the smartest person in the room, because then I’m not growing. I want to rub shoulders with other people who are doing the dang thing, but are also three, five, ten steps ahead of me because I can learn from them. I want to be in a group where I can also pull up the people from behind and bring them along for the ride and pour into them.
That’s why I joined Agency Mavericks. Agency Mavericks is an online community specifically for freelancers, website developers, and digital marketing agencies to help start, and grow their own web business. I love being part of this group as a coach to meet other like minded people and to help others grow.
How to Build a Positive Inner Circle
I’ve seen firsthand how crucial it is to surround yourself with the right people. Your inner circle plays a significant role in shaping your mindset, influencing your decisions, and ultimately impacting your success.
When I was working in the non-profit field, my mentor (an amazing, Godly woman) would say “people are either taking away from you or adding to it – it’s up to you to decide.”
So, how can we ensure that our inner circle empowers rather than detracts from our business strategy? Here are a few ideas:
- Audit Your Circle: Take stock of the people you spend the most time with in your professional life. Are they aligned with your goals and values? Do they uplift and motivate you?
- Seek Diversity: Surround yourself with individuals from diverse backgrounds, industries, and perspectives. Embrace the richness that comes from varied experiences and viewpoints.
- Cultivate Relationships: Invest time and effort into nurturing relationships with those who inspire you. Attend networking events, join professional groups, and seek mentorship opportunities.
- Set Boundaries: Don’t be afraid to distance yourself from negative influences or toxic relationships. Your mental and emotional well-being are essential for your success.
Sorry, Not Sorry
Be mindful of toxic relationships and negative influences. It’s okay to distance yourself from people who drain your energy, undermine your confidence, or hinder your progress. Surround yourself with positivity and watch how it transforms your mindset and propels you toward success.
I truly believe that people are placed in our lives on purpose for a specific amount of time – whether it’s to serve you or them. We’re all on different journeys and it is okay if you have to bless those people elsewhere for you to continue on your journey if they’re filling your space with negativity.
By surrounding ourselves with positive, motivated, and forward-thinking individuals, we can elevate our business strategy, unlock new opportunities, and achieve greater success. So, let’s choose our inner circles wisely! What are your thoughts on the influence of your inner circle on your business strategy? Share your comments below – let’s continue the conversation! If you’re ready to surround yourself with positivity, join my inner circle. Sign up here!
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